What do you want more than anything? Is is a spouse? A dream job? A certain amount of money? To be a famous actor/athlete/singer? We all have deep rooted dreams, that we want to see happen, but we also let reality get in our way.
Reality tells us that we need to have a fall back plan in case our dream doesn’t come true. While this sounds logical and safe it’s a bad idea. Now before you go selling everything you have and moving to your dream city, take a few things into consideration. If you have a family then you have some responsibilities. Your family needs to eat, needs a roof over their head, and has needs. I’m not saying be irresponsible. What I am saying is don’t settle for second best.
Because when we have lots of backup plans, we tend to focus on them more than our main plan. We tend to take focus off our dream.
So don’t have a backup plan. Do whatever you have to, to keep pushing towards your goal. Your why is in you already, it’s been there all your life, you know what it is. So stop running from who you are and live it, scream it, and do it.